Self Care: Eliminate the Drain

Self Care: Eliminate the Drain There comes a point in your twenties (read: life), that you have to decide how you will handle the flying curve balls and disappointments that you face. Some things are truly out of your control; but you are fully responsible for how you respond and manage through the circumstances. Life […]


I talk in a whisper, so maybe that’s why you didn’t hear me. Women are meant to be seen, not heard..isn’t that what they say? I never wanted to be heard, anyway…I wanted to be listened to. What’s the point of you seeing me, if you’re not listening? Senses work together, in cadence and communion. […]

Renewal + Redemption

The blog almost got dropped. I changed my name from 2ndandL on Instagram, and deleted my twitter. I deactivated my Facebook, and I just started blocking. The Block Feature, it is not something I run from. Sometimes it needs to happen. Not forever, but sometimes for a season, you’ve got to do what you have […]


It hurt, not like hell, but it hurt. It didn’t hurt as much as forgotten peace and lack of sleep, but it hurt. It didn’t hurt as much as being disrespected, but it hurt. People don’t know anything anyway. Well, I won’t speak for you, but I don’t know much. I sense a lot though. […]